Should you change the one you love to get the relationship you deserve?? This is a very taboo topic in which most of us would say ‘no you shouldn’t’.
This morning's conversation, Jaemin shared a number of things we should consider when thinking about our relationships. They were
How 1 in 3 people state their partner is the most annoying person they know!
How relationships change
The two common paths of relationships: 1) Intimacy & 2) Arrangement and how we all deserve intimacy. We spoke about the 5 key steps to improving the relationship and getting what you deserve. We can’t expect change in someone else unless we are willing to change also
Ensuring the importance of creating clear space to have adult conversations and work through the challenges you have in a relationship. We need to stop letting it fester!
The question Jaemin wanted us to think about this morning was Are you happy in your relationships?
‘Don’t change the people you love’ is the single worst piece of relationship advice ever given. The reality is that if you don’t find a way to change those you love, there’s a high chance your needs will not be met, and you’ll be left feeling resentful and frustrated. It doesn’t have to be this way.
In the new book, Leverage, leading life coach Jaemin Frazer argues that to prevent our relationships descending into maximum-level annoyance, not only is adjusting and improving the behaviour of those you love appropriate, it’s essential. But you must proceed for the right reasons, and you will need to leverage.
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Jaemin Frazer is a TEDx speaker, author of multiple books and widely regarded as one of Australia’s best life coaches. He is the founder of the Insecurity Project and specialises in helping entrepreneurs, leaders and business owners eradicate insecurity to improve their lives. Jaemin is the voice behind the popular ‘One Minute Coach’ radio segment heard by over 750,000 listeners daily. Jaemin is the author of The One Minute Coach, Unhindered: The 7 Essential Practices for Overcoming Insecurity and Elegantly Simple Solutions to Complex People Problems.